Meditations for Mortals - Oliver Burkeman
Author: Oliver-Burkeman
Series of daily thoughts around being limited beings, following on from Four-Thousand-Weeks-by-Oliver-Burkeman-2021. I read as recommended, one a day. Unlike the how the book recommends, I also made notes on it because it helps me think.(Writing-is-Thinking).
Key ideas
- Death is a blessing because you have to choose what to do with your time. You-Will-Die and that’s ok because it limits what you can do. Acknowledge-Your-Limitations
- you-have-to-do-the-thing-instead-of-learning-about-it, Do it consistently. do-it-with-no-hope-of-doing-it-again. Always just have now and the choices you make with it.
- That said, aim-to-do-things-daily-ish. Regular, but you’re not a failure if you don’t.
- You can do anything, but you have to accept the consequences. Eg don’t tidy up, but accept the house will be messy.
- [[ Keep a done list ]].
- [[ Lists and to read piles are rivers ]] or a menu, not an obligation.
- [[ It is impossible to pay attention to everything ]]
- the-future-is-unknowable. Accept that and don’t worry.
- Make a decisioin and follow it when uncertain. doing-is-often-better-than-thinking.
- What does done look like? If you’re writing a book it might be writing a chapter, not writing the whole thing. Break-big-tasks-into-tiny-steps(Getting-Things-Done-David-Allen-2016 in a chapter)
- [[ Face what you fear ]]
- [[ What if it was easy ]]?
- Other people can have their problems - it doesn’t affect you.
- Problems lead to good stories.
- [[ Life cant be hoarded ]]. Once again: Life can’t be hoarded
Notes mentioning this note
Aim to do things daily-ish
Advice you always hear for a new habit is to do it every day. But if you miss a day,...
You have to do the thing instead of learning about it
When you are learning new hobby or trying something out, you have to do the thing.
Do it with no hope of doing it again
Because [[all-we-have-is-this-present-moment]], when you are trying to build habits, don’t think about the future. Don’t think about the [[aim-to-do-things-daily-ish]]. Instead,...
Doing is often better than thinking
You should [[Have-a-bias-towards-action]], as [[actions-create-meaning]]. Instead of thinking about what you are going to do, try picking one action and...
The future is unknowable
There is no way to know what will happen to you today, or tomorrow, or at any point in the...